» Dear White People goes nationwide on Oct 24!!!

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But it wont be available in Milwaukee so check your theaters!!!

Actually its not available in a lot of places and you can demand for your theater to have it here!!

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nagisaru:

things that arent fucking abusive but are traits of mental illness:

  • mood swings
  • jealousy
  • neediness
  • violent urges (verbally. if they act on it then thats a different story.)
  • breakdowns over little things you do
  • constant need of attention

seriously, if you’re uncomfortable with a mentally ill person doing these things, let them know. watch out for your safety too. just dont throw a hissy fit about abuse if they dont respond very lightly. abuse is somebody literally hurting you physically and forcing you to do things. just because a mentally ill person kind of hurts your feelings when they break down doesnt mean they’re abusing you. holy shit.

abuse can be verbal/emotional/psychological but yeah mentally ill people acting, you know, mentally ill isnt abusive in fact a lot of these traits can be developed because of past abuse just sayin

I am so sick of people claiming “showing sign of a mental disorder” is emotional abuse, especially when it’s so minor (maybe not verbal violent urges). I swear I grew up in an abusive household. it is deliberate and CHRONIC.  it is not becky being annoying in a way that seems “strange” to you holy fuck. 

I reread this and i’m uncomfortable with “don’t throw a hissy fit about abuse if they don’t respond very lightly” and the ignoring of emotional abuse but at the same time symptoms of disorders get conflated with abuse so much because it’s so vague and non described. the post could be written better but then again so could posts that go “if he looks at you for 4 seconds longer than normal get out of that relationship it’s danger!”

constantly needing attention is a very common symptom of personality disorders. it might be annoying but i don’t know how it could be abusive. don’t be with someone who you can’t handle? 

mood swings are common in both borderline and bipolar. again idk where it affects you. it consists of “highs” and “lows”. unless you really hate someone at a high or a low. if you want to describe being warm and affectionate one minute and cold and distant another minute, i would not use the term to describe something commonly used to describe bipolar disorder to do it. i would probably describe specifically what was abusive about the changing behavior

neediness and jealousy idk. if its a motive for abusive behavior then the mental disorder doesn’t cut it. on their own they just sound like emotions? negative ones. again i hate the vagueness. again its not the emotion itself but how they’re expressing it. if they’re being really exploitative and manipulative and nasty and use that as a motive then it’s abusive. but someone calling you one time too many or getting a little freaked out over you hanging out with your ex alone doesn’t constitute abuse i don’t think? 

breakdowns over little things you do and violent urges im not comfortable with. i can see those things being abusive if the person doesn’t have good self control or a good way to cope with it. Im also confused by what they mean by “breakdowns over little things you do” because that sounds controlling. 

it isn’t a well written post but i understand the need for it. 

Alot of people against OP is basically saying I’m a monster period for being needy or having meltdowns. I don’t feel safe here anymore.

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femininefreak:

Gloria Steinem and Dorothy Pitman-Hughes, 1972 and 2014

Both by Dan Bagan

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Or not being able to take your expired coupon.

or not being able to break any rule that is store or company policy

Or not being able to make the manager come up to the cash register any quicker